Why Young Boys Like Cars
In today’s fast-paced world, many children are hyperactive for various reasons. Young boys, especially by the age of 9 or 10, tend to be physically active, filled with energy, and in a crucial stage of brain and body development. While hyperactivity is common, it does not necessarily indicate conditions like ADHD.
One factor worth considering is the limited time kids see their parents reading books. Many parents, especially in South Asian (or “Desi”) communities, are often on their phones. Children naturally mimic what they observe, so they frequently pick up or ask for phones, influenced by what they see at home.
Recently, a parent asked me why young boys are so drawn to cars. I believe this attraction has to do with their high energy levels and the challenge they feel when playing games. Many children today spend time on racing games, which foster a competitive, win-at-all-costs mindset. This may fuel their fascination with cars, speed, and competition.
Additionally, kids may lack exposure to calming activities, as many haven’t observed their parents engaging in practices like meditation, prayer, or yoga. Without these examples of relaxation, children may lean toward high-energy activities instead. Ultimately, their interest in different car models and the thrill of racing is a reflection of both their environment and their developmental stage.
Blog by Sayed Israr
Parent Coach