Spouse Relationship

Among the more popular parenting method is one that we term as the “Fine gardening” model.

What is this method and what does it convey?

Parents believe that children have positive and negative qualities, the latter of which parents should “weed out” or “prune” into an appropriate shape.

The problem in this parenting method is that parents fight with the faults of their child rather than appreciate their current achievements and/or capabilities; a method which may continue through their whole life without success.

Question: How many words make up Parent?

Answer: Two words – Father and Mother
And the relation is much deeper – Husband and Wife

No Parenting workshop is complete without a reference to Spouse relationship.

Relationship is such a word that connects us to each other. We all are connected to people and we have different kind of relationships with them. But most of all it depends on how we maintain our relationship with people.

A good relationship means a good family maintenance. And this starts at home. Nowadays relationships at home between parents and children or husband and wife are not well going. Widely noticed and researched families are not happy with whatever is happening within the family.

While this is a parenting series, but remember before you became a parent – you entered into another relationship of a husband and a wife.

Here a three quick easy to understand lessons for a healthy relationship between the couples:

1. Be open to each other.

Problems between husband and wife should stay within them and not leak out. Husband should understand the feelings of wife and wife should understand the feelings of husband

2. Solve the problems don’t fight over them.

Problems coming upon couples should not make them weak enough to fight over it, but surely strong enough to go through it and solve the problem.

3. Explain your expectations.

If you are parents and you are not happy with your child’s behaviour don’t shout at them or taunt them. Explain them with cool minds. Let them know that you love them and give them some time so that they feel close to you and discuss everything with you. This applies to couples as well.